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How To Start A Conversation On Tinder (With Text Examples)

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"How To Start A Conversation On Tinder (With Text Examples)" Sign up to get on Tripp's Free dating tips newsletter ►► http://trippadvice.com ↓↓↓ READ MORE ↓↓↓ The way to get a conversation started on Tinder is to stand out. Stop doing what every other guy is doing and do something that will get a girl's attention by being interesting, funny, and intriguing. In this video, I'm going to sharemy best 3 techniques for starting a conversation with a girl on Tinder. Here they are. 1. Create a story based on one of her pictures. Be humorous and creative about it. [1:11] 2. Comment on something from her profile. Mention something about her interests or pics. [1:59] 3. Cold reading. Take a guess on what she's like as a person. Be funny about it. [3:02] When you can create funny stories based on her information, show her that you took the time to read her profile, and say something funny that gets her attention, she's going to respond to you. Starting a conversation on Tinder is much like starting one in real life. Have a nice smile, show interest, and make her smile by saying something interesting. To your success,  Tripp Please Like and Subscribe! Subscribe ►► https://www.youtube.com/user/trippadvice?sub_confirmation=1 Like me on Facebook ► https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice Follow me on Twitter ► https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice Listen to "How To Talk To Girls" podcast on iTunes ► https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-talk-to-girls-podcast/id952917216 Listen to "How To Talk To Girls" podcast on Stitcher ► http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=60118&refid=stpr Visit the website ► http://trippadvice.com Got a question? E-mail me ► [email protected] Share Link – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzJ2OgEEGpM
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Text Comments (403)
404 GF (4 days ago)
These examples don’t work for me :/
el_chino_778 (9 days ago)
Good advice more online dating videos please
FonziTheSavage (20 days ago)
I have 52 matches and I still haven’t meet anyone yet.
Music_360 (23 days ago)
if you have to write a paragraph to some bitch you dont know then it aint worth it . ...If you have money or they think you do all you have to say is hello and thats it
Mick Faro (25 days ago)
Tip 1: have fun Tip 2: stand out Tip 3: be confident Tip 4: be a leader Tip 5: treat her gentle Tip 6: have respect
Mick Faro (13 days ago)
Its a learning proces of failing. Sometimes you have to look back what you did wrong and i react because i want to give people my opinio on my learning proces
Mick Faro That’s why you’re here.
Keith Ellis (26 days ago)
I usually just keep it simple straight forward. By saying how was your day and usually works for me!
Ashleymark Mills (1 month ago)
Tinder sux get ignored and when I do get matches I get unmatched half day later for no reason. Screw that
jaczekdertuerke (1 month ago)
While you are a handsome man, your outfit is horrible. Do you actually get tinder matches with that jacket blouse?
Feri Müller (1 month ago)
This is bullshit...
milplayer19 (1 month ago)
Do u need plus to message people or for them to see u
Motor PI (1 month ago)
is he wearing a shirt/hoodie/jacket ?
Ricardo Melo (2 months ago)
Just tried the cold reading method and got called an asshole for starting a conversation by assuming who someone is :-)
Daniel Palsson (2 months ago)
it only lets me scroll through girls not talk to them
What do you do when you matched with someone who you actually know? Lol. And go to the same school, but only have seen eachother like twice, have texted a couple times to invite her to an event but barely response. But now you matched..
Bonzo B (2 months ago)
600+ matches... haven’t messaged any of them
Milan Goranovic (2 months ago)
Many thanks, I have been researching "witty one liners for tinder" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Neeyedaly Romantic Pussnap - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my neighbour got amazing results with it.
mohamed amine Badji (2 months ago)
Many thanks, I've been looking for "what to talk about on tinder" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Neeyedaly Romantic Pussnap - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.
IER people help (2 months ago)
I lost my phone number can I have yours
max shepherd (2 months ago)
Il tell you how to start a conversation with a bird on tinder.... hey do you think your gods gift or something because you clearly think you are not to message first you stupid ugly dog. :)
Itachi Uchiha (3 months ago)
When you match with a girl but she too fine to message back 😂😫😭
Daniel Larsson (3 months ago)
I actually used the last one where I guess a little bit about her but of course I changed it somehow, that she is a vegetarian, loves really old philosophy and is crazy about chocolate ice cream. I was being very sarcastic about it, and one girl replied back that it was "not even close", then I was joking like "I thougt every 19 year old girl loved old philosophy" She didnt seem to respond well... she thought I was being a jerk, and not in the "good" way :( But one girl seemed to like it and responded well, she was laughing a little and then said i was partly right, and told me I should guess which one was right... :) Well I havent tried it much, so maybe someone else will have more humour about it though...
Cory Breeze (3 months ago)
Hi Dr. Tripp!
Milk Man (3 months ago)
I noticed this was uploaded a bit over 3 years ago, does this still work in 2018??
Mc Terb (3 months ago)
Nope, in 2018 you have to sacrifice one kidney at dawn and drag your glans through 5 feet of glass fragments.
Bob Smith (4 months ago)
Sorry but the only way men can be successful on any dating apps is if they are either attractive or flash their wealth around (pictured with an expensive car). Seriously , don't waste your time guy's, put your efforts into something positive instead of the negativity that these app's bring with them for the majority of men.
Count Faqu (4 months ago)
My guarantee #1 tip for starting a conversation; list in your profile that you make over 150k a year. Bitches love money.
Peter Traulsen (4 months ago)
This is so cringe... I can’t handle it
Anderhils (4 months ago)
90% of grilz pose in toilet or some other mirror. I dont see any charming story coming out from that
Toastydoom69 (4 months ago)
This video is bullshit... Nobody likes coldplay
Traveler _09 (5 months ago)
1: be attractive 2: don't be unattractive there is no step 3
Rob (5 months ago)
Tinder girls are like job employers. You must remember this.
Tony Mclovin (5 months ago)
Just put in your profile that you own a gun. It gives them the feeling youre a bad boy. We all know they like bad boys.
Cris R (5 months ago)
Knock knock pick up lines
Pinoy Isda (5 months ago)
I’m lonely af that’s why I’m watching this video lol
Vlad Riamzinas (5 months ago)
Yoooooo ggggg there is literally nothing to talk to girls aboutttt gggg
Ben Gerber (5 months ago)
Out of all my matches this year, only ONE girl has messaged me with something other than “hi.” Seriously. think I look 9/10 so this is extra confusing. Do girls on here even want to meet guys or is it only used for a confidence boost. I understand there is a lot of thirsty guys out there but this is only making the good guys that are left, too thirsty themselves.
GCOUNDOU (6 months ago)
Tripp show us how to create a good profile so we can match first...
HeyImJP (6 months ago)
A guy with my looks, (lack of) status, and such, saying that I'll ever get a match on Tinder is about as ridiculous as saying that Anakin/Vader will ever get the high ground over Obi-Wan (it'll NEVER happen)!
Chester Fong (6 months ago)
1000 swipes. Only got 8 matches. Rip
eyyodc (2 months ago)
Use super likes. If your will to pay for the monthly you get like 5 a day. If not you get one. So use it wisely
Daniel Larsson (3 months ago)
Well I have around 10 000 and got 6 matches lol! I envy you
James Kimpton (6 months ago)
Just downloaded tinder and got WAY more matches the first night than I thought I would. Had no idea what to do about it
Alex B. Concerts (6 months ago)
Its funny that HAS SOON AS I cancelled my gold subscription i got 25 likes in an hour 🤔🤔
Sateki Tongia (6 months ago)
Got my first match, straight to tripp advice😂
theodoreg19 (6 months ago)
Send memes
Ahmed Bhatti (7 months ago)
I'm gay
97warlock ismyname (7 months ago)
Ive heard you cam message on tinder, my tinder plus doent have chat or messages.
Mato Lato (8 months ago)
This was great, thanks, been searching for "8 minute dating austin" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Lebellarna Satisfaction Smokescreen - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my friend got great success with it.
back and forth Poet (8 months ago)
Dont watch this if you're a girl
uit Cuijk (8 months ago)
Wtf are you wearing???
Danny's Gaming Channel (9 months ago)
Everytime I am on a dating site I have to copy and paste a message because I can't be bother to send different message each time as Nearly all the girls I send message to don't reply back. It just loses my motivation on sending message knowing most female users don't reply back unless you are good looking.
dullahan LC. (9 months ago)
Bruh how socially disfunctional you have to be to not know how to start a casual conversation
Moltisanti 040 (10 months ago)
Im 19 and I matched with a really hot girl older than me, she is 33. And Im too scared to start a conversation because I dont know what to say, I dont wanna fuck this one up. I always wanted an older girl in the first place lol
Sagar Deswal (10 months ago)
He said it’s super easy to get a match. For real man?
Mtl514 (8 months ago)
Sagar Deswal its 1st day and i got 3 matches EZ baby
Henrik Persson (10 months ago)
Sagar Deswal It is.
kevinflynn14 (10 months ago)
What can you cook ma???
D B (11 months ago)
These lines are so corny this isn't working unless ur like 30... maybe
Noah Banta (1 year ago)
Is it not a good idea to compliment them on there looks?
Henrik Persson (10 months ago)
Noah Banta No.
Sam Van der Roost (1 year ago)
This will work most of the time: Hi (name), if you where an animal, what animal would you want to be? I am speaking Dutch so it sounds a little bit diffrent here
Promatheusz (1 year ago)
Tripp you are awesome! The last one worked even one those which I tought I bombed initially :)
Claude Akel (1 year ago)
i tried this once got my dick sucked
Shelzor (1 year ago)
poda pulle
Francis Finne (1 year ago)
the mos difficult aspect of chatting, is to keep the conversation interesting, not getting a response
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Wood Hawk (1 year ago)
Easy to get a match that banter so funny... :'(
Jason Young (1 year ago)
This is in 2014. Back then it was true. However, I feel like a large chunk of girls deleted the app and 10 times the amount of guys downloaded it so now getting a match is very uncommon for most guys. I remember back in 2014 and 2015 I would get around 2-3 matches a day. Now I get about 1 match every 2 to 3 weeks. It only works now if you look like a male model or rich/famous
chad wilson (1 year ago)
news flash there isnt a guide feel it out ppl
chad wilson (1 year ago)
this guy needa watch will smiths movie about helping people
chad wilson (1 year ago)
its easy to talk to a girl just have coincidence in all of who you are and be urself why set urself so far back as to use these ur gay if u use these becuase there examples for u to work on urself if you were dumb enough to use them thats ur fault dont blame someone else for your own stupidity lol its just a crime i tell yeah. im a good looking guy but i wanna nerd for a.girlfriend becuase im a nerd lol but im also 28 so i keep it simple know adays. half the girls are so damn hawt there standards are so high they end up in porn and no one wants them so sad ment for so much more then that.
Melvin Glo (1 year ago)
I explained everything that was happening in a bishes pic... she thought I was weird n unmatched with me
Melvin Glo (1 year ago)
fuck dat and fuck u
Mo Ali (1 year ago)
Hi all. 11 meet tomorrow at home for 11.30 ko.
FlexFlinstonedTM (1 year ago)
I used to be so good at this shit , then depression came along lol
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Ben Brown (1 year ago)
Or alternatively: [name], looks longingly at the ocean wondering "why do kids love the taste of Cinnamon Toast Crunch?"
Metz (1 year ago)
there aren't any secrets...just be yourself...she either likes you or not...it's not Rocket science
Matt T (1 year ago)
Why do men have to do all of this shit? Seems unfair and sexist against men that not only do we have to be physically attractive enough to match with a girl, but also have to learn how to play this game of hoops as well. All women have to do is show their ass or something or just look pretty. Which isn't even remotely hard unless you are a fat slob that smoked cigarettes for 15 years.
o milli (5 months ago)
Good question. Is nature dude. Even animals, the males do ALL the pursuing. Ask yourself, why are you not following your natural instincts? Mmm?
james Right (9 months ago)
good advice never fought of it like that
Lee Allen (9 months ago)
Think of it like this. Since women are playing a passive game they have to sort thru lots of guys that they aren't attracted to, lots of creeps, and lots of unwanted attention from the wrong type of guys. Men can go directly after girls that they are interested in. Its like the difference between one person having to dig thru tons of soil to find a Diamond and the other just walks into a Jewelry store and chooses the diamond they like.
AJ Truss (9 months ago)
Think of it this way. If you're not afraid of rejection you have an unlimited amount of girls you can approach and choose. For them, since they like playing the passive game, they are limited to how many guys approach them. It's how I see it. My advice, approach multiple girls, dont give a fuck and eventually one will like you
Bleuet (10 months ago)
Its called nature and animal psychology. Comes as second nature after awhile tbh, embrace the pussy
virtual240 (1 year ago)
i rarely get any messages from women on any datind site
Dronic X (1 year ago)
Whats worked for me: Nothing What hasnt worked: Everything
RETROKING 101 (1 year ago)
Bruh just screen shot this video and send it to her. Works every time.
HawaiiVice (1 year ago)
Awful tipa
Jason Fouladi (1 year ago)
i've tried all these Technics none of them worked for me not trolling i just don't understand why nobody wants to keep a conversation going.
Iceysolesonfeet (1 year ago)
Too much work....
moniey54 (1 year ago)
Can you even message someone on tinder without the liking you back?
A K (1 year ago)
u look so bad😕😕
Bethel Boyz (6 months ago)
A K ? looks pretty normal to me
Petsy Gaming (1 year ago)
Number 2 has been tried many times but it only gets you closer to the friend zone.
Petsy Gaming (1 year ago)
Number 1 is highly unlikely unless you look attractive/innocent.
James Bond (1 year ago)
Is your background really ur place or is that a green screen?
qaghzz (1 year ago)
James Bond greeeeen
SFtheflash (1 year ago)
Funny how girls always complain about being viewed as objects but here we all are on YouTube watching how to videos to get a response
Eric O Callaghan (1 year ago)
Are you google because your everything I'm looking for, It's shit and cheesy but it actually works
Renaldo Xhahu (1 year ago)
Send Nudes always works for me.
Nikhil Harins (9 days ago)
“Send vagena pix” works for me
R A (29 days ago)
“Send Bobs” works for me
David TenderNuts (1 year ago)
just tell her you just got back from Cancun or wherever. It'll make you sound more interesting and experienced. It works.
xrayeyesb4u (1 year ago)
online dating in general is a waste of time for men. It's a soul-crushing experience. The women are spoiled and are ridiculously selective. A lot of women i know don't even take it seriously and just use the app for getting attention and occasionally a date free dinner whatever. Yes I'm serious. I've even had a gf from tinder (lasted about 10 months). She just hopped right back on Tinder. Let this be a lesson to men reading this: Grow a pair and approach women in-person, in real life. You're going to get fucked over by relying only on online dating apps/websites. It used to be good till around 2015. Ever since, it has sucked. Approach and meet women in person. If you can't do that, you're a loser and not a real man. You can down vote this and the feminists will come in droves to hate on this comment - so be it - I know the truth.
Nick Lenczewski (1 year ago)
My problem is not getting them to respond initially, my problem is keeping their interest for more than 2-3 texts in order to secure a date. These are very good tips though for opening.
xrayeyesb4u (1 year ago)
because online dating isn't natural. I've used it since 2011 when I was 18. I'm a big data developer. I'm a huge fan of tech. But it's much better to ditch the online dating. If you feel like you must use it, use it in the background but don't waste all your time on it. It's really difficult to get anywhere on it.
London In Style (1 year ago)
Holy Crap! I just used the first technique on this girl n tinder and she responded instantly! I'm smiling :)
Septell (1 year ago)
i got 1 match in 1 week... and my opener.. "if that pussy shaved, i hit" didn't work..
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budro (1 year ago)
What the fuck has become of me? -is what i ask myself while i unironicaly click on these videos
Jason Have ten (1 year ago)
xrayeyesb4u tried it does not work... girls seem to be more interested in their phone if you do one thing wrong. you are better of becoming President of the US as a dutch man
xrayeyesb4u (1 year ago)
You are using online dating which is laziness. start approaching women in person. much better luck this way.
Erwin Salas (1 year ago)
Clark (1 year ago)
I sent her some Taylor Swift lyrics: "Nice to meet you, where you been, I could show you incredible things" and she replied, "I would very much like to be excluded from this narrative, Taylor." What do I reply?
Erik DiNardo (1 year ago)
im not gonna lie ...this sounds like alot of work
xrayeyesb4u (1 year ago)
ding ding ding! And it shouldn't be this ridiculous. Ditch online dating and go for real life interaction... coming from someone working in the tech industry
C Stone (1 year ago)
Tripp how do I talk to a girl I'm interested in but never actually seen them irl. She is a best friend of my friends GF
AlexRoverClub (1 year ago)
Conway Stone be forward, go talk to her
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Levi C (1 year ago)
vid starts at 1:11
Zakaria Boualaid (4 months ago)
Haha hilarious, thanks man
AJ Barrett (1 year ago)
Can I hit?

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