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Please show your support: https://www.patreon.com/redpillinterviews Make a one time donation: https://www.paypal.me/RedPillInterviews Download my book Red Pill Galaxy: https://payhip.com/b/wvGe Displaying Male Emotions In the modern age, men are consistently told that they key to attracting a woman’s affection is to express himself openly and share his feelings. However, according to the Red Pill community, women are actually not attracted to men who are overly emotional. Despite what they claim to like, women actually find these men needy and clingy. The Red Pill community says that to be overly open and vulnerable with your emotions signals to women that you are a beta male, rather than the strong confident alpha male they are attracted to. They say that to be more discerning with your displays of emotion, will demonstrate your value to women by displaying your self control and maintaining an air of mystery and stoicism. They advice they give men when dating girls is to throw away the nice guy routine, keep your feelings to yourself and reserve displays of emotion for rare instances of genuine connection with a woman. Any thoughts? a) Do you think men are as emotional as women? b) Do you think women are more attracted to men who display their emotions openly or men who are more stoic and mysterious? c) Are you personally attracted to sensitive men who openly share their feelings? d) Do you think the advice the Red Pill community gives men, to be more reserved and controlled in their emotions, is good advice? e) Why do some women find expressions of male emotion to be unattractive? f) If it does make men more unattractive in womens eyes, why do you think society encourages men to openly show their emotions? g) Have you ever empathised with the difficulties faced by men in navigating these mixed messages that encourage him to be both strong and tough and also open and vulnerable? h) If you were giving advice to a male friend about attracting women, would you advise him to display his emotions or stay more reserved and self controlled?
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Alexander Grace (8 months ago)
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Hamza Younis (3 months ago)
what we found out from this video is this, the word emotion means a spoiled brat and weak person! which is not true, now who has taught these people and everyone today that when it comes to being spoiled like that is OK if you are a women and that just means you are emotional, but if you are a man it just means you are being not manly?? so all this leads to is people helping women not just in need, but whenever they cry for anything, they can EVEN LIE about whatever they want and still be favored, because it is "feminine"??? someone is to blame and someone is telling people these things, first place i would start looking is ALL music made since 50s til now and ALL movies and tv shows and media from 50s till now, lets say if we find something that has been systematically put into our subconscious minds!!
ady george (4 months ago)
the norvegians are the vikings,of course they don't show emotions
A Sparrow (5 months ago)
The beauty is that their answers wouldn't change if they were hot. That's the fallacy of women, they're LITERALLY all the same....
Spirit Of Alaska (8 months ago)
Jesus christ man, are you at the beach or the zoo? These females looks like horses with down syndrome
John Snow (8 months ago)
You should try to trap these women with your questions. Lot of them would probably contradict themselves with their answers.
Rotbart1337 (17 hours ago)
Could someone explain me in detail what beeing emotionals means in this context? Like not beeing a pussy about stuff that happens or never talking about stuff like how you like campfires or when the snow is falling?
James Craig (19 hours ago)
In all fairness this is a stage of introduction to a man. No of course if he has PTSD or depression or is too emotional she will turn elsewhere. When she is married w children and vested she better make darn sure she is listening and learn how to understand stress and challenges. Else he may turn to self destruction or another woman.
Danny Hughes (22 hours ago)
Nobody woman wants a crying azz man lol.
Russell Turner (2 days ago)
Be yourself is good advice for about 5% of people.
Ben Carter (3 days ago)
When are men going to stop pandering to these contradictory retards. The arrogance is breathtaking and is completely unappealing. Fuck their expectations, fuck their demands. Pump and dump and make sure you kick as they leave
Gitali Jetli (6 days ago)
Girls aren't worth it be too emotional you are clingy and needy dont show emotions you are too stoic faced yeah people don't need the shit but the main question is why does he interview ugly girls I saw 4-5 vids and most of these girl were ugly
Dave Skelt (7 days ago)
1:28 It's the female equivalent of reviewbrah!
amin zar (8 days ago)
For all men THE ADVICE D) IS THE MOST AMAZING ADVICE YOU CAN TAKE IN YOUR LIFE.
mark. c (8 days ago)
the level of hypocrisy,its why women end up with wankers which l think is great,the question about mixed messages and they were clueless
Jimbob Sherwood (11 days ago)
They say they are more attracted to men who don't show as much emotion, and then proceed to disagree with the advice of being more emotionally reserved. K
"Just be yourself..." so we can chew you up and move to the next cock to ride.
MrSayonara88 (12 days ago)
oh wow, sounds like these women want a stereotypical male, but what about equal rights?! yea sounds repetitive but WOMEN DON"T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT!
bugyesz (20 days ago)
This needs clarification? What do you mean as emotional? Emotional like a whiny bitch or someone who has a high emotional intelligence and capable of empathy or actually cares for other people?
tommywreck (22 days ago)
*Wait, did you just say any thots?*
Methane (25 days ago)
Leave all the emotional non sense to women
Wms YT page (29 days ago)
How about not being a no-values asskisser and just be who you are? Acting either more or less emotional than you naturally are and changing your core values just to get someone to like you will almost guarantee you to get your ass dumped when they find out what a spineless jellyfish you really are and make you live a life for others, perpetually in fear of being found out. Good plan, chump!
AC Jams (1 month ago)
"Keep your emotions locked up because I'm the only one who is allowed to have them and you're just a fucking tool" thats what I get out of these women. They don't really want a true meaningful relationship.
David DeSilva (2 months ago)
So emotional honesty is bad?
Rabbitthateats (2 months ago)
lmao the higher SMV girls say men arent and the lower SMV girls say they are. Which sums up exactly what types of men they can attract.
Jo J (2 months ago)
These women are obviously young & not too knowledgeable in life, so I really hope there are more women in their 30s being more consistent with their opinions & actions; and above all, wiser. Too much contradiction & base animalistic/societal perversion here. The heart is wise, these women aren't.
Fade It (2 months ago)
It's a trip how some know you have emotions too but don't want you to show them
R. (2 months ago)
8:22 b-but what about gender equality??!!1!
Marissa K (2 months ago)
I think some of your word choices may have skewed your results. "Overly emotional" already conveys his emotions as being a bad thing. The word "clingy" sets off red flags for both guys and girls in the dating world. And then saying "stoic and mysterious" is shining those things in a good light, when they might not necessarily be. If the guys in that situation is cold, hides his feelings, doesn't communicate, most women are going to be unhappy with that. But I think most men would be unhappy about it too. It's wonderful when a man is comfortable with his emotions. Maybe he's more romantic, affectionate, cuddly. I think if emotional connection is something you value in a relationship, you'll want a man who is comfortable expressing them. At the same time, people want somebody who is emotionally stable, and isn't toxic to be with. That's reasonable!
teatowel11 (2 months ago)
Honestly I don’t think it’s that complicated. Women want a man that is emotionally stable. They don’t want someone who is depressed, easily angered or gets upset and cry’s at the drop of a hat. They don’t want someone who is going to be emotionally dependent on them, because they want someone who can be stable and comfort them not the other way around. They do however want someone who will express appreciation and desire towards them, and someone who can openly discuss problems in a relationship. The closer you become in a relationship the more they accept and expect displays in emotion but helplessness and desperation are never seen as attractive. They also say you should be yourself. There is a difference between trying to improve yourself and trying to misrepresent yourself. If you are pretending to be someone you are not your going to fall apart. So being yourself is good advice but it just means if you don’t possess those qualities you won’t be a super attractive partner. Not everyone has an attractive personality just as some people are not physically attractive.
21Vicroy (2 months ago)
Wow, the contradictions in this vid is so impressive it's literally depressing.
SEBp Mtl (2 months ago)
it s funny you can always see a difference between the hottest chicks and the ones that are more plain jane, the answers are different. Or maybe I'm just biased. They like mysterious guys though so that's a good thing.
Pskylark (2 months ago)
And this is where I royally fucked up with that hot coworker of mine. Redhead, tall, slim. Imagine an older prettier version of Merida from Brave. I put all my cards on the table in the first week and basically confessed my love for her. Then didn’t understand why she wanted no part of me. Never do this. You give all your power to the girl and she then has all the control over where the relationship goes.
regular john4 (2 months ago)
Talk about your feelings for your own health.... Just not to me -womam logic
Pau Ayelo (2 months ago)
Fuck me , im going to shut my mouth from now on
Suistamo Karjalainen (3 months ago)
"Have you empathised...?" "I guess so" How empathy is connected to constant laughing, i dont get it..
Taurean Clarke (3 months ago)
Every time a feminist asks the question why men don't cry, we should send them the link to this video.
Mosalman Khub (3 months ago)
English is not my mother language can you explain what red pill means?
Riccardo Moretti (3 months ago)
Car guards
swiadomosc-zwiazkow (3 months ago)
White Michael Jackson on 4:38
Gordon G (3 months ago)
Don’t ask a fish
stew macgregor (3 months ago)
Theres a way to share your emotions as a man..articulate then rather than express them
tommywreck (22 days ago)
You can also rely on your friends; at least they're willing to listen, understand and relate.
FallenPasha (3 months ago)
The double think is insane: are you personally attracted to emotional men? No. Should men be less emotional? No. Duhhh
ageofbogyo (3 months ago)
Love the girl logic want a man who does not care to protect them. Flash news men who does not care, does not care about you therefore wont protect you. That's why 90% of girls nowadays hit the wall as single, wasted their youth on assholes and will end up with cats. Its funny how clearly comes through that they want to use men for their needs, and discard any who are not use for them. The have you empathized question answers were hilarious > their face showed the I don't give a fuck about what men feel/want as I care only about myself mentality. Girls wants you to be a player who fucks multiple women as that makes them special if you fuck with them. This changes when they hit the wall and want kids as they need you to provide for them, as your time /resources cannot be spent anymore fucking other women. Their priorities change.
Bradford Walker (3 months ago)
@ 7:55 They just want a strong male? Hahahahah Yes, you want a strong male, how has this gotten away from the public. . .
Manuel Gutierrez (3 months ago)
Why does John Mayer get so much pussy being such an openly emotional guy? Don't read to much into this dudes.
Manuel Gutierrez (3 months ago)
I think this is overthinking it a bit and also a small sample of women. ALL these women would change their answers if brad pit was an emotional guy. They would all say and mold to whatever was needed in order to win his favor.
Doubles Guy (3 months ago)
I don't consider myself picky, but damn, not one of these girls even get my balls tingling.
Kul Pink (3 months ago)
the only reason why women are so desired in societies, is because their reproduction system works different. A man can impregnate many women in a single day. A woman can only get pregnant once every like 9-10 months. If 90% of women die, society is doomed. If 90% of men die, the other men can still repopulate society. Thats probably the only most important reason, why society cares about women at all. If there would be artificial wombs, women would truly become only sex objects and obsolete.
LENIN MONK (3 months ago)
Now that most relationships are extremely short term, do not open up to women. They are strangers. Wait as long as you can, over 5-6 years if it lasts that long.
Riotlight (3 months ago)
9:20 there you go. They admit it. Guys can never win! Whatever we do will always be wrong.
saint strawman (3 months ago)
Women are attracted to sociopaths who have no emotion themselves but know how to stimulate women's emotions. Women are absolutely self-centered in all ways, and the only type of guys they like are guys who do things for them. So obviously they don't want a guy who has any needs of his own. But what women don't realize is that if they fulfill a good man's needs then he'll be perfectly stable so she benefits. Yet if she chases a sociopath, he'll end up abusive.
simon lloyd (3 months ago)
I don't really like female traits..women are parasitic by nature. they are also generally less logical, less creative, less imaginative, less supportive, less funny..Just less.
Brian Jarvis (3 months ago)
This was your best set of questions ever. Can you repeat this one in multiple locations? I really want more feedback from more women from more places on these questions.
David (3 months ago)
Aussie women are ugly as fuck
Sho Jo (3 months ago)
Girls aren't attracted to ANY man that shows emotions. In other words they don't like a man that's a clear image of themselves.
jlopez0027 (3 months ago)
I just cried watching this. Lmao 😂
CV (3 months ago)
Every girl in this video is incredibly gross and stupid. But I respect your work.
OJM (3 months ago)
I remember how I was viewing women before I took the red pill... I sometime miss it... But I guess the truth is better... even if it's ugly...
Joe Towers (3 months ago)
"Just be yourself"- as long as that doesn´t mean showing weakness or insecurity. "We are all equal" - but a vulnerable male is so unattractive! "Women are as strong as men"...scratch that - they are stronger! But don´t be weakened by brutal rejection - "women want men to protect them" (although they are stronger!) "Of course men should be encouraged to share their emotions" - but don´t be fucking clingy or insecure, you lowly piece of crap! "Don´t you dare call my actions irrational, you mysogynistic creep" - although I know they fucking are!
Moon_ Pill (3 months ago)
I think you guys are getting something wrong over here. Yes, less emotional men are more attractive, but suppressing your feelings is not going to work either. Being yourself is best for getting into a relationship, since in a relationship, you will show your true colors sooner or later. Being yourself IS not always the most attractive thing, but because it's genuine and will be better in the long run.
Mary Antonio (3 months ago)
5:05 Yo, I don't think it matters if men express their feelings. It's just that women, like men too probably, would rather men not express certain feelings. They don't want men to express needy feelings, or hopeless feelings or feelings about incompetence, etc. Other than that, you can express whatever you want. And it's not even that women don't want men to express needy feelings, even though that is generally mostly true. It's that women don't want to be relied on to alleviate those feelings. See what I'm sayin? And it's not just women, pretty much everyone is wired like that, but ESPECIALLY women when it comes to mate selection. So I'm sayin, if you express some shitty emo feelings once in a while, you'll probably be fine, but if you look to women to relieve your insecure feelings, you will find yourself shunned by them. Your welcome. Seriously, not to toot my own horn, but this powerful wisdom that I learned over the years and it could save decades of bullshit to the right person. Like if I died today, this would probably one of the most concise and potent paragraph of wisdom I have. And I'm not even getting paid for this shit. I probably should be. I might even delete this paragraph because why am I not getting paid, and a bunch of other no nothing newspaper douchebags do get paid for their shitty opinions? Buuuuut, fuckin feminists have literally been raising generations of men to be completely unattractive. They've been telling men to be vulnerable and express their shitty feelings and that men don't have to take control. And now these men are objects of scorn and disgust to women, and in great pain themselves. You know, when I die, I will be sad to not know how the human story turns out. I want to know what technology will be like in 2200 or whatever. But what I'm really going to miss out on is the generation that finally realizes that feminism is bullshit. I don't think it's going to happen in my lifetime. It will take generations.
d3ug (3 months ago)
This didn't help.
Jose Perez (3 months ago)
Red pill community. Do women not realize it? Do they not care, or is all of this subconscious to them? Can someone answer me this question, please?
Nick W (3 months ago)
I've always been rather conversational, shall we say... the notion that girls/women can mistake this as leaving little to be 'discovered' whereas the men who have little to say ('mysterious', 'enigmatic') present a challenge to be 'figured out', is a grotesque demonstration of their shallow vanity.  About three years ago a young, very agreeable, lady suddenly showed extra interest in me (we'd had positive interactions for some years... as I do with most people), she invited me to coffee... I recall it with some amusement, she couldn't really hold a conversation... with me anyway. I happened to be reading a book, The Master and his Emissary, I tried to discuss it... almost utterly pointless. Did she really think I could be put 'on hold' all that time (I was never romantically interested) and then suddenly just be a potential partner... actually she was looking for a husband. Re The Master And His Emissary, it's an extraordinary book; a documentary based on it is due sometime this year, I won't be at all surprised if it proves very successful... perhaps not so much with women though, they're too busy getting to know the sort of guys that are almost certainly as empty as they seem (left brained perhaps).
Edielton Dantas (3 months ago)
Well, they are talking about over emotional men...
Black OGJesus (3 months ago)
perfectly fine for them to be emotional 24/7 but if we're even emotional for a few minutes we're seen as pussies/beta males/ unmanly/Weaklings? Mmk Keep telling yourselves that... Stupid bitches
Clint Padman (3 months ago)
Emotionally sensitive men are still considered not masculine and not attractive? Bugger..
jokeer14 (3 months ago)
This is nice work you are doing, no nonsense! It's rare to see women (men as well) out of character and speaking the truth. Props to getting women in a comfortable environment so that they speak openly and honestly.
Captain Midnight (3 months ago)
"Maybe to me, not in front of everyone" - That's it right there folks. The reason they want alpha males is because they want trophy husbands or body guards. And they say men who keep "trophy wives" are disgusting. And WTF is "be yourself"? That's a pathetic advise that promotes complacency. People should always strive to be survivors and better versions of themselves.
Constantly Correct (3 months ago)
Just fininshed the video. Wow! Woman just have no freakin' idea how hard it is to be a guy. Also... THEY DON"T CARE how hard it is. Hahaha. broads... oh dear......
Constantly Correct (3 months ago)
6:39 - Remember dudes... women... ALL OF THEM are way more interested in what you can give to them, than they are concerned with what they can give to you...
Constantly Correct (3 months ago)
5:50 - And this selfish cunt on the right, is the sort of.. well... cunt, that would EXPECT and DEMAND her man to allow her to dump everything on him all of the time.
CharlesBarkleyGG (3 months ago)
As a non emotional man. What does it mean to "open up" to a woman? What emotions are you sharing? Other than my emotions about the girl I am dating I do not really have emotions that I would share in the first few months that would come off as sensitive.
Banana_Muffens (3 months ago)
Why isn't this on tv? Or make it a Netflix series.
psychonautboy 02 (3 months ago)
This society has no place for male emotions. For an emotional man like myself it's either paying a psychotherapist or slowly letting those emotions turn to anger.
EL MARIACHIE (4 months ago)
men are more attracted... tits.
Markus Huber (4 months ago)
I just want to form a deep emotional connection with another human to make existence a little bit less horrible Fuck me right.
Stephen Lawrence (4 months ago)
I think our genes are lagging behind our social development. We're still hard-wired towards stone-age behaviour. Well, perhaps towards pre-industrial society behaviour. Hey, I'd love it if you also added a question like "how do you think the choices you make guide you towards guys whose behaviour is ultimately damaging towards you?" . Like where does a "mysterious guy who likes to be in control" actually lead to? Like these girls were wanting a guy to be able to display two sorts of behaviour. But how will they know which one they'll get? And what influences this belief? Films? TV? It's my belief that both sexes ideally want a fantasy world. And that'll take a lot of shifting. Thx, one of your best videos
Alex Decampos (4 months ago)
lying and manipulative or bluntly intellectual inferior use them to procreate thats it. don't marry them, save them, help them etc.
Parker Dolan (4 months ago)
Yes women have no fucking clue what they actually want
After hours of watching these types of videos i've learnt one thing, Only when women's looks fade do they actually want Decent blokes. Count me out. Single life no kids. Just casual Partners. Vasectomy here i come.
outofscenes (4 months ago)
this are the woman who then complain about only dating douchebags and fuckboys
haruga (4 months ago)
8:03 Turns out that having a partner is good for your mental health.
AJ (4 months ago)
pretty sure half of these girls didn't understand the questions.
Women are hypocrites .
toneman335 (4 months ago)
A female wants what she perceives as a strong male. So the showing of too many emotions undermines that.
Ender (4 months ago)
I have to ignore this channel going forward, I just can't bring myself to care about women's thoughts and opinions.
Alvaro Quesada (4 months ago)
When a women says "You're not a man", I can quickly answer that with, "Um, says the woman"?! WTF, do you know about being a man?! Done. We as men, should draw strength from each other. Never, never, draw strength from a female. Men need to come together. It's vital.
野村ERIK (4 months ago)
Women are morons.
zsword93 (4 months ago)
They want an emotional man, who is in contact with his emotions and not a total dick, but they also want him to not show all that emotion and act like he is a bit of jerk-while deep down he isn't-or he is but will change only for her, because the role of the emotional one is taken up by them, so they guy can't do that as well...And if he does, he's a pussy and they throw him out. So they tell you "be yourself and be open" but the moment you do that, you are treated like a bitch. They think they are emotional, so it will suit them perfectly that the guy they hang around with is not like them. They talk as men exist only to fit their needs and emotional state each time of day or period of the year.....But sure!Men are pigs and they only treat women as objects,wait what? Then they say the advice the redpill community gives is not good....The real answer is that this advice is not good "for them", because if the guys take it, they will stop dealing with their bullshit....MY FUCKING GOD!! I have never before realized what egomaniac creatures women are......I am so disappointed....
Men Going Abroad (4 months ago)
Great video if you pay attention and listen. Women advise men to do X, but admit that they are attracted to Y. So ignore what women say. Just do what you feel.
DrawEquipped (4 months ago)
As a man who started off not having a filter on my emotion. I would be able to attract women, and be able to charm them with an 'I'm an emotional guy' line; however, once they found out that I wasn't actually just saying that, things ended pretty quickly. Since then, I've just put a lid on my emotions and kind of let it creep out here and there to keep interest and intrigue afloat. I've been with my gf for close to a year now, and even now I still can't show her my final form lmao
Crymble (4 months ago)
OK I'm not as hateful towards women as many of you guys, but this is actually bs Okay, he said "overly emotional" suggesting that there is something wrong but the fact they prefer a man who doesn't share his emotions while saying men are just as emotional. What the fuck. The 4 women who said they should repress their emotion should actually get their rights taken away. Get them some emotionless man to marry that has full power over her and is stoic most of the time but bursts out at some point and beats her up. You like that? Nah. So grow the fuck up.
jordivandertorre (4 months ago)
Although I appreciate the honesty expressed by these women, their frequent inconsistencies are pretty hilarious - and a little saddening.
Jonathan Sibbel (4 months ago)
I liked how in the past some of your interviews surprised me with how the ladies responded. This one was fairly predictable. Think they were being most honest at the end when they said upfront they want a man who is tough, guarded and stoic. Then only after getting to know them being emotionally vulnerable. Even then not to much just enough to feel like they are important to the guy. That is what I took from this.
Bill Westfall (4 months ago)
Women: "I'm attracted to stoic men" , "Should men hide their feelings?" Women: "No" ????????
Iron Guide (4 months ago)
I think that today womens would love to sleep with MONGOLS.
The Guru of Kang (4 months ago)
A girlfriend wanted to know my deeper emotions and thoughts. After a lot of nagging over time i opened up (for a big part) to her. After a while she said that she was happy that she really got to know me so much better and now she could use my emotions and deeper thoughts like a weapon at any time against me so i better watched out. Never again ! Keep 'em guessing. Stand tall, firm, mysterious, while friendly, for they are looking for "that half-god daddy" when they were his little princess and want that feeling back. Be in charge (but don't push them too much neither) or they won't respect you.
Government GangBang (4 months ago)
2:44 what a cuck! men are NOT more emotional than women thats batshit insane. we're more romantic in the pure sense of the word, but not more emotional. women feel emotions with such power, theyll fuck off all facts. men (outside the beta cuck white knights of course) dont. case closed sir. this channel is boss by the way. congrats. very jelly of your location, balls to go around doing this.
Corey Poublon (4 months ago)
“Women love sensitivity,” the biggest lie taught to boys as they’re growing up
notlengthy (4 months ago)
women don't understand having the ability to hide your emotions inherently means that men are less emotional. Emotions are things that are specifically differentiated between logic because logic can be easily controlled where as emotion is by definition, not. Ergo, men who practice controlling their emotions are always going to be less emotional. Women think hiding your emotions is no big deal and that you're just as emotional as them only you're hiding it, but have any of them actually tried ever hiding their emotions? BIG FAT NO.
dark parker (4 months ago)
What if a men tell women something, and feel the need to explain further just so they get the whole view? These women would rather fill in the blanks themselves than know facts, because according to them men lose their charisma if they go out of their way to communicate thoughts and feelings.
xcaluhbration (4 months ago)
1. Realize you must know yourself. 2. Question yourself honestly. 3. Don't be afraid to let your ego die. 4. Let your ego be rebuilt through rigorous work. 5. Be yourself. 6. Repeat step 1.
Cult (4 months ago)
that nipple exposed to the Red Pill Community in front of her boyfriend

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