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Displaying Male Emotions
In the modern age, men are consistently told that they key to attracting a woman’s affection is to express himself openly and share his feelings. However, according to the Red Pill community, women are actually not attracted to men who are overly emotional. Despite what they claim to like, women actually find these men needy and clingy. The Red Pill community says that to be overly open and vulnerable with your emotions signals to women that you are a beta male, rather than the strong confident alpha male they are attracted to. They say that to be more discerning with your displays of emotion, will demonstrate your value to women by displaying your self control and maintaining an air of mystery and stoicism. They advice they give men when dating girls is to throw away the nice guy routine, keep your feelings to yourself and reserve displays of emotion for rare instances of genuine connection with a woman. Any thoughts?
a) Do you think men are as emotional as women?
b) Do you think women are more attracted to men who display their emotions openly or men who are more stoic and mysterious?
c) Are you personally attracted to sensitive men who openly share their feelings?
d) Do you think the advice the Red Pill community gives men, to be more reserved and controlled in their emotions, is good advice?
e) Why do some women find expressions of male emotion to be unattractive?
f) If it does make men more unattractive in womens eyes, why do you think society encourages men to openly show their emotions?
g) Have you ever empathised with the difficulties faced by men in navigating these mixed messages that encourage him to be both strong and tough and also open and vulnerable?
h) If you were giving advice to a male friend about attracting women, would you advise him to display his emotions or stay more reserved and self controlled?
I’m very emotional and can feel the people around me. Funny enough every woman who has a boyfriend or is married loves this traid and tells me that I’d make a great partner.
I really try hard to epathize with everyone. This is just me I can’t get around this. So I have often very deep emotional talks with both male and female allowing me to help many people. Yet no single girl feels attracted to me. I often hear the sentence: I wished I had a guy like you. It is makeing me sick!
I don’t want to close up my feelings because I have to express them. So I started with art. Manly depressive and dark what I’m doing but I don’t feel the need that much anymore to talk to people about my inner thoughts.
Still I wished to share it with someone I love... I guess this will never happen since men are not allowed to show any other emotion than rage and hatred it seemse...
What is it with women that like having to ask questions and get to know a guy?
What kind of instinct is that? I don't get it. I've never been like "I hope she's hiding other aspects of her life, so it's more interesting".
Quiet the opposite, I just want to know the girl will be on my side and that's it. If she has no friends, or what job she does, I could not care less.
Sadly, what these girls or women sound like what they want is an emotional crutch and not a male human being. The line "Just be yourself" is becoming sickening because of their inherently fraudulent use of it. They don't want you to be yourself but instead they want you to be what they need you to be.
Wait a second.
If being emotional is unattractive why are these women saying it is fine once the relationship develops a bit?
Have we figured out the reason for women cheating and breaking up with their partners?
On the other side also why do they assume men like overly emotional women?
Men are fixers which means when you cry they want to solve a problem meanwhile women many times just cry and want to bitch about their problems.
I wonder if that behavior came about from women being too reliant on men for solving problems so they are acting like dumbasses because the problem is not home/relationship orientated so it makes no sense to ask their man to fix the problem.
I've started to realize that with the way women are, I can only be physically attracted to most of them. The cold truth is most of them are very narcissistic. And physical attraction is not enough for me, so I end up not wanting much to do with them. Ehh, oh well.
the idea is misleading, basically if the guy is attractive girl will accept any feat of him, even being emotional
emotional = oh i love him so much, we got perfect harmony
ever seen those pcitures of a young couple looking in each other eyes while standing on a mountain with beautiful sunset behind, the guy is usually very good looking with nice hairstyle and full-grown beard, this is the case
unemotional = well thats how he is and i accept him anyways
there wont be any above said pictures though, well, she doesnt care, as long as he is attractive and she gets wet at bed, u know
If you are physically weak, meaning other people can beat you up or submit you easily, you need to develop communication skills and learn how to handle situations without rising conflict. That's how women have evolved to be the way they are. They can't protect themselves so they either need to make a man o a group of men defend them or they need to manipulate conversations in order to dimishing threats on her. They can't be 100% honest, they have to be agreeable to what's mainstream accepted
This just shows how women would say anything to avoid conflict or to avoid being judged. Besides,it's clear that they haven't thought any of this through which shows how their opinions are based mostly on feeling not on deep reflection. I don't think most of them are being totally honest here, that's why they laugh so much. Again, what they say and how they act are two different things.
The "Red Pill" advice to not show your emotions is absolutely correct -- when you are with a woman. If you want to talk with someone about your emotions, you need to talk with a man you can trust - NOT a woman. Women do NOT understand men's emotions. They will get uncomfortable and will misinterpret what the man is saying. Not only will it mess the woman up, it will also interject chaos into the man's mind causing things to be even worse for him.
You cant just ask a woman what she wants.from a psychological perspective women are agreeable and submissive so its impossible even for them to know what they want.they just follow the man who has the right mindset.thats their survival mechanism.
They always have to hide behind some degree of ambiguity with their answers! Not to mention how blind they are to their own self-contradictions from one question to the next immediately after, nor their utter gynocentrism and apathy towards males ---- astounding!!!
See now this is where I think some men might be a bit confused. In what I've discovered, a women is a master at knowing where you are in your relationship, are you on your third date and telling them you're falling for them....are you on your first date askin them about kids? It's easy to make some of these minor mistakes and send a women running. This model seems to work wonders, at least it has for me. You don't ever ever want to be more emotional than her. In fact you should never really be close. Most women are well aware of the emotional roller coaster going on inside them. Most are seeking for that man that can keep them in line, help be the logical counter for these sometimes uncontrollable emotions for them. The less you know this women, the less emotion you want to show. She should know that you are a rock, and she can depend on you in times where her emotions take control.
Oh man, these videos are pure gold. @ 4:10 I think this women is being completely honest here ....she says she'd like to say the more open and emotional guy, but she knows it's the mysterious dude. Women DO this ALL the time lol....that's why I'd recommend doing your homework, so you can understand how you need to react when your women is trying to press your buttons.
Wow. Any times, mostly previous interviws when I heard women's emotional values mentioned being VALUES. Here all emotional values of men were at best neutral, but mostly degraded with negative term. They don't even notice...
Women may get away with it, but can you honestly say you like emotional women? i don't think in general people like emotional people. but women get more leeway because men are horny and put up with it.
You can actually tell the ones that are lying saying no to the advice given by the red pill community to not show your emotions while the ones telling the truth speak immediately. What a statement that is. Clearly shows that they ladies are conniving and the one stated how she could walk all over a guy that does that. Wow great teaching video to not let a woman know your true feelings.
Bros... First, no one likes an over-emotional person, I put my foot down and remind my girlfriend her period is coming. She now understands her moodiness is really due to it and stops her crap. Second, drop the words "I feel like" and their derivatives from your vocabulary and use other alternatives. Third, realize the irony of watching a video about the unattractiveness of over-emotional men and the many comments from men expressing their emotions about this video.
Yes, learn how to express your emotions in a stable, calm manner and when you do it, make sure it's over something worthwhile. For example, I calmly explain to my gf she has to put out or I'll go look for it elsewhere. Easy.
Yes. Most women don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. And to take it a life stage further, when a woman's husband is dying a woman generally will be totally obsessed with how it will affect herself and especially around others, she will attack the husband because he's betraying her and abandoning her by dying. It's his fault (as usual) ....
I'm glad I come from a "sexist" culture where my father taught me all of this shit when I was young. Through his actions, often indirectly and sometimes directly. My mother had me convinced my father was stupid and she lied about making more money than him. She nags at him all day and he just tolerates but then one day he explained why he tolerates my mother because my mother's actions were right. She worked, cooked, cleaned, managed household and basically yelled to vent her frustration and my dad just chilled and almost went deaf acting like there isn't a woman screaming in the kitchen. So I learned that.
If you listen and read between the lines, what they want is a guy who is sensitive to *her* issues but no anything that effects the man personally. Any problem the man has in his own endeavors, he just needs to get over it.
1. Women are narcissist and can't stand the idea of them not being the center of attention.
2. They have no empathy thus no interest in comforting you in your time of need it grief.
Last time i shared my feelings with a woman all she had to say was "no" and that "you shouldn't stress so much" my bad for actually caring about you and wanting to treat you nicely. But never again. Live and learn
It makes me wonder if almost tearing up when my dog almost died from swelling infront of my ex female friend was what put her off. I wonder how a chick would react in the same situation, I kept my cool but had a very serious face and eyes
Could someone explain me in detail what beeing emotionals means in this context? Like not beeing a pussy about stuff that happens or never talking about stuff like how you like campfires or when the snow is falling?
In all fairness this is a stage of introduction to a man. No of course if he has PTSD or depression or is too emotional she will turn elsewhere. When she is married w children and vested she better make darn sure she is listening and learn how to understand stress and challenges. Else he may turn to self destruction or another woman.
When are men going to stop pandering to these contradictory retards. The arrogance is breathtaking and is completely unappealing. Fuck their expectations, fuck their demands. Pump and dump and make sure you kick as they leave
Girls aren't worth it be too emotional you are clingy and needy dont show emotions you are too stoic faced yeah people don't need the shit but the main question is why does he interview ugly girls I saw 4-5 vids and most of these girl were ugly
How about not being a no-values asskisser and just be who you are? Acting either more or less emotional than you naturally are and changing your core values just to get someone to like you will almost guarantee you to get your ass dumped when they find out what a spineless jellyfish you really are and make you live a life for others, perpetually in fear of being found out. Good plan, chump!
These women are obviously young & not too knowledgeable in life, so I really hope there are more women in their 30s being more consistent with their opinions & actions; and above all, wiser. Too much contradiction & base animalistic/societal perversion here. The heart is wise, these women aren't.
I think some of your word choices may have skewed your results. "Overly emotional" already conveys his emotions as being a bad thing. The word "clingy" sets off red flags for both guys and girls in the dating world. And then saying "stoic and mysterious" is shining those things in a good light, when they might not necessarily be. If the guys in that situation is cold, hides his feelings, doesn't communicate, most women are going to be unhappy with that. But I think most men would be unhappy about it too.
It's wonderful when a man is comfortable with his emotions. Maybe he's more romantic, affectionate, cuddly. I think if emotional connection is something you value in a relationship, you'll want a man who is comfortable expressing them.
At the same time, people want somebody who is emotionally stable, and isn't toxic to be with. That's reasonable!
Honestly I don’t think it’s that complicated. Women want a man that is emotionally stable. They don’t want someone who is depressed, easily angered or gets upset and cry’s at the drop of a hat. They don’t want someone who is going to be emotionally dependent on them, because they want someone who can be stable and comfort them not the other way around.
They do however want someone who will express appreciation and desire towards them, and someone who can openly discuss problems in a relationship.
The closer you become in a relationship the more they accept and expect displays in emotion but helplessness and desperation are never seen as attractive.
They also say you should be yourself. There is a difference between trying to improve yourself and trying to misrepresent yourself. If you are pretending to be someone you are not your going to fall apart.
So being yourself is good advice but it just means if you don’t possess those qualities you won’t be a super attractive partner.
Not everyone has an attractive personality just as some people are not physically attractive.
it s funny you can always see a difference between the hottest chicks and the ones that are more plain jane, the answers are different. Or maybe I'm just biased. They like mysterious guys though so that's a good thing.
And this is where I royally fucked up with that hot coworker of mine. Redhead, tall, slim. Imagine an older prettier version of Merida from Brave.
I put all my cards on the table in the first week and basically confessed my love for her. Then didn’t understand why she wanted no part of me.
Never do this. You give all your power to the girl and she then has all the control over where the relationship goes.
Love the girl logic want a man who does not care to protect them.
Flash news men who does not care, does not care about you therefore wont protect you. That's why 90% of girls nowadays hit the wall as single, wasted their youth on assholes and will end up with cats.
Its funny how clearly comes through that they want to use men for their needs, and discard any who are not use for them.
The have you empathized question answers were hilarious > their face showed the I don't give a fuck about what men feel/want as I care only about myself mentality.
Girls wants you to be a player who fucks multiple women as that makes them special if you fuck with them. This changes when they hit the wall and want kids as they need you to provide for them, as your time /resources cannot be spent anymore fucking other women. Their priorities change.
I think this is overthinking it a bit and also a small sample of women. ALL these women would change their answers if brad pit was an emotional guy. They would all say and mold to whatever was needed in order to win his favor.
the only reason why women are so desired in societies, is because their reproduction system works different.
A man can impregnate many women in a single day.
A woman can only get pregnant once every like 9-10 months.
If 90% of women die, society is doomed.
If 90% of men die, the other men can still repopulate society.
Thats probably the only most important reason, why society cares about women at all.
If there would be artificial wombs, women would truly become only sex objects and obsolete.
Women are attracted to sociopaths who have no emotion themselves but know how to stimulate women's emotions. Women are absolutely self-centered in all ways, and the only type of guys they like are guys who do things for them. So obviously they don't want a guy who has any needs of his own. But what women don't realize is that if they fulfill a good man's needs then he'll be perfectly stable so she benefits. Yet if she chases a sociopath, he'll end up abusive.
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