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Displaying Male Emotions
In the modern age, men are consistently told that they key to attracting a woman’s affection is to express himself openly and share his feelings. However, according to the Red Pill community, women are actually not attracted to men who are overly emotional. Despite what they claim to like, women actually find these men needy and clingy. The Red Pill community says that to be overly open and vulnerable with your emotions signals to women that you are a beta male, rather than the strong confident alpha male they are attracted to. They say that to be more discerning with your displays of emotion, will demonstrate your value to women by displaying your self control and maintaining an air of mystery and stoicism. They advice they give men when dating girls is to throw away the nice guy routine, keep your feelings to yourself and reserve displays of emotion for rare instances of genuine connection with a woman. Any thoughts?
a) Do you think men are as emotional as women?
b) Do you think women are more attracted to men who display their emotions openly or men who are more stoic and mysterious?
c) Are you personally attracted to sensitive men who openly share their feelings?
d) Do you think the advice the Red Pill community gives men, to be more reserved and controlled in their emotions, is good advice?
e) Why do some women find expressions of male emotion to be unattractive?
f) If it does make men more unattractive in womens eyes, why do you think society encourages men to openly show their emotions?
g) Have you ever empathised with the difficulties faced by men in navigating these mixed messages that encourage him to be both strong and tough and also open and vulnerable?
h) If you were giving advice to a male friend about attracting women, would you advise him to display his emotions or stay more reserved and self controlled?
what we found out from this video is this, the word emotion means a spoiled brat and weak person! which is not true, now who has taught these people and everyone today that when it comes to being spoiled like that is OK if you are a women and that just means you are emotional, but if you are a man it just means you are being not manly?? so all this leads to is people helping women not just in need, but whenever they cry for anything, they can EVEN LIE about whatever they want and still be favored, because it is "feminine"??? someone is to blame and someone is telling people these things, first place i would start looking is ALL music made since 50s til now and ALL movies and tv shows and media from 50s till now, lets say if we find something that has been systematically put into our subconscious minds!!
Could someone explain me in detail what beeing emotionals means in this context? Like not beeing a pussy about stuff that happens or never talking about stuff like how you like campfires or when the snow is falling?
In all fairness this is a stage of introduction to a man. No of course if he has PTSD or depression or is too emotional she will turn elsewhere. When she is married w children and vested she better make darn sure she is listening and learn how to understand stress and challenges. Else he may turn to self destruction or another woman.
When are men going to stop pandering to these contradictory retards. The arrogance is breathtaking and is completely unappealing. Fuck their expectations, fuck their demands. Pump and dump and make sure you kick as they leave
Girls aren't worth it be too emotional you are clingy and needy dont show emotions you are too stoic faced yeah people don't need the shit but the main question is why does he interview ugly girls I saw 4-5 vids and most of these girl were ugly
How about not being a no-values asskisser and just be who you are? Acting either more or less emotional than you naturally are and changing your core values just to get someone to like you will almost guarantee you to get your ass dumped when they find out what a spineless jellyfish you really are and make you live a life for others, perpetually in fear of being found out. Good plan, chump!
"Keep your emotions locked up because I'm the only one who is allowed to have them and you're just a fucking tool" thats what I get out of these women. They don't really want a true meaningful relationship.
These women are obviously young & not too knowledgeable in life, so I really hope there are more women in their 30s being more consistent with their opinions & actions; and above all, wiser. Too much contradiction & base animalistic/societal perversion here. The heart is wise, these women aren't.
I think some of your word choices may have skewed your results. "Overly emotional" already conveys his emotions as being a bad thing. The word "clingy" sets off red flags for both guys and girls in the dating world. And then saying "stoic and mysterious" is shining those things in a good light, when they might not necessarily be. If the guys in that situation is cold, hides his feelings, doesn't communicate, most women are going to be unhappy with that. But I think most men would be unhappy about it too.
It's wonderful when a man is comfortable with his emotions. Maybe he's more romantic, affectionate, cuddly. I think if emotional connection is something you value in a relationship, you'll want a man who is comfortable expressing them.
At the same time, people want somebody who is emotionally stable, and isn't toxic to be with. That's reasonable!
Honestly I don’t think it’s that complicated. Women want a man that is emotionally stable. They don’t want someone who is depressed, easily angered or gets upset and cry’s at the drop of a hat. They don’t want someone who is going to be emotionally dependent on them, because they want someone who can be stable and comfort them not the other way around.
They do however want someone who will express appreciation and desire towards them, and someone who can openly discuss problems in a relationship.
The closer you become in a relationship the more they accept and expect displays in emotion but helplessness and desperation are never seen as attractive.
They also say you should be yourself. There is a difference between trying to improve yourself and trying to misrepresent yourself. If you are pretending to be someone you are not your going to fall apart.
So being yourself is good advice but it just means if you don’t possess those qualities you won’t be a super attractive partner.
Not everyone has an attractive personality just as some people are not physically attractive.
it s funny you can always see a difference between the hottest chicks and the ones that are more plain jane, the answers are different. Or maybe I'm just biased. They like mysterious guys though so that's a good thing.
And this is where I royally fucked up with that hot coworker of mine. Redhead, tall, slim. Imagine an older prettier version of Merida from Brave.
I put all my cards on the table in the first week and basically confessed my love for her. Then didn’t understand why she wanted no part of me.
Never do this. You give all your power to the girl and she then has all the control over where the relationship goes.
Love the girl logic want a man who does not care to protect them.
Flash news men who does not care, does not care about you therefore wont protect you. That's why 90% of girls nowadays hit the wall as single, wasted their youth on assholes and will end up with cats.
Its funny how clearly comes through that they want to use men for their needs, and discard any who are not use for them.
The have you empathized question answers were hilarious > their face showed the I don't give a fuck about what men feel/want as I care only about myself mentality.
Girls wants you to be a player who fucks multiple women as that makes them special if you fuck with them. This changes when they hit the wall and want kids as they need you to provide for them, as your time /resources cannot be spent anymore fucking other women. Their priorities change.
I think this is overthinking it a bit and also a small sample of women. ALL these women would change their answers if brad pit was an emotional guy. They would all say and mold to whatever was needed in order to win his favor.
the only reason why women are so desired in societies, is because their reproduction system works different.
A man can impregnate many women in a single day.
A woman can only get pregnant once every like 9-10 months.
If 90% of women die, society is doomed.
If 90% of men die, the other men can still repopulate society.
Thats probably the only most important reason, why society cares about women at all.
If there would be artificial wombs, women would truly become only sex objects and obsolete.
Women are attracted to sociopaths who have no emotion themselves but know how to stimulate women's emotions. Women are absolutely self-centered in all ways, and the only type of guys they like are guys who do things for them. So obviously they don't want a guy who has any needs of his own. But what women don't realize is that if they fulfill a good man's needs then he'll be perfectly stable so she benefits. Yet if she chases a sociopath, he'll end up abusive.
"Just be yourself"- as long as that doesn´t mean showing weakness or insecurity. "We are all equal" - but a vulnerable male is so unattractive! "Women are as strong as men"...scratch that - they are stronger! But don´t be weakened by brutal rejection - "women want men to protect them" (although they are stronger!) "Of course men should be encouraged to share their emotions" - but don´t be fucking clingy or insecure, you lowly piece of crap! "Don´t you dare call my actions irrational, you mysogynistic creep" - although I know they fucking are!
I think you guys are getting something wrong over here. Yes, less emotional men are more attractive, but suppressing your feelings is not going to work either. Being yourself is best for getting into a relationship, since in a relationship, you will show your true colors sooner or later. Being yourself IS not always the most attractive thing, but because it's genuine and will be better in the long run.
5:05 Yo, I don't think it matters if men express their feelings. It's just that women, like men too probably, would rather men not express certain feelings. They don't want men to express needy feelings, or hopeless feelings or feelings about incompetence, etc. Other than that, you can express whatever you want. And it's not even that women don't want men to express needy feelings, even though that is generally mostly true. It's that women don't want to be relied on to alleviate those feelings. See what I'm sayin? And it's not just women, pretty much everyone is wired like that, but ESPECIALLY women when it comes to mate selection. So I'm sayin, if you express some shitty emo feelings once in a while, you'll probably be fine, but if you look to women to relieve your insecure feelings, you will find yourself shunned by them. Your welcome.
Seriously, not to toot my own horn, but this powerful wisdom that I learned over the years and it could save decades of bullshit to the right person. Like if I died today, this would probably one of the most concise and potent paragraph of wisdom I have. And I'm not even getting paid for this shit. I probably should be. I might even delete this paragraph because why am I not getting paid, and a bunch of other no nothing newspaper douchebags do get paid for their shitty opinions?
Buuuuut, fuckin feminists have literally been raising generations of men to be completely unattractive. They've been telling men to be vulnerable and express their shitty feelings and that men don't have to take control. And now these men are objects of scorn and disgust to women, and in great pain themselves. You know, when I die, I will be sad to not know how the human story turns out. I want to know what technology will be like in 2200 or whatever. But what I'm really going to miss out on is the generation that finally realizes that feminism is bullshit. I don't think it's going to happen in my lifetime. It will take generations.
I've always been rather conversational, shall we say... the notion that girls/women can mistake this as leaving little to be 'discovered' whereas the men who have little to say ('mysterious', 'enigmatic') present a challenge to be 'figured out', is a grotesque demonstration of their shallow vanity.
About three years ago a young, very agreeable, lady suddenly showed extra interest in me (we'd had positive interactions for some years... as I do with most people), she invited me to coffee... I recall it with some amusement, she couldn't really hold a conversation... with me anyway. I happened to be reading a book, The Master and his Emissary, I tried to discuss it... almost utterly pointless. Did she really think I could be put 'on hold' all that time (I was never romantically interested) and then suddenly just be a potential partner... actually she was looking for a husband.
Re The Master And His Emissary, it's an extraordinary book; a documentary based on it is due sometime this year, I won't be at all surprised if it proves very successful... perhaps not so much with women though, they're too busy getting to know the sort of guys that are almost certainly as empty as they seem (left brained perhaps).
This is nice work you are doing, no nonsense! It's rare to see women (men as well) out of character and speaking the truth. Props to getting women in a comfortable environment so that they speak openly and honestly.
"Maybe to me, not in front of everyone" - That's it right there folks. The reason they want alpha males is because they want trophy husbands or body guards. And they say men who keep "trophy wives" are disgusting.
And WTF is "be yourself"? That's a pathetic advise that promotes complacency. People should always strive to be survivors and better versions of themselves.
As a non emotional man. What does it mean to "open up" to a woman? What emotions are you sharing? Other than my emotions about the girl I am dating I do not really have emotions that I would share in the first few months that would come off as sensitive.
I think our genes are lagging behind our social development. We're still hard-wired towards stone-age behaviour. Well, perhaps towards pre-industrial society behaviour. Hey, I'd love it if you also added a question like "how do you think the choices you make guide you towards guys whose behaviour is ultimately damaging towards you?" . Like where does a "mysterious guy who likes to be in control" actually lead to? Like these girls were wanting a guy to be able to display two sorts of behaviour. But how will they know which one they'll get? And what influences this belief? Films? TV? It's my belief that both sexes ideally want a fantasy world. And that'll take a lot of shifting. Thx, one of your best videos
After hours of watching these types of videos i've learnt one thing, Only when women's looks fade do they actually want Decent blokes. Count me out. Single life no kids. Just casual Partners. Vasectomy here i come.
When a women says "You're not a man", I can quickly answer that with, "Um, says the woman"?! WTF, do you know about being a man?! Done. We as men, should draw strength from each other. Never, never, draw strength from a female. Men need to come together. It's vital.
They want an emotional man, who is in contact with his emotions and not a total dick, but they also want him to not show all that emotion and act like he is a bit of jerk-while deep down he isn't-or he is but will change only for her, because the role of the emotional one is taken up by them, so they guy can't do that as well...And if he does, he's a pussy and they throw him out. So they tell you "be yourself and be open" but the moment you do that, you are treated like a bitch. They think they are emotional, so it will suit them perfectly that the guy they hang around with is not like them. They talk as men exist only to fit their needs and emotional state each time of day or period of the year.....But sure!Men are pigs and they only treat women as objects,wait what?
Then they say the advice the redpill community gives is not good....The real answer is that this advice is not good "for them", because if the guys take it, they will stop dealing with their bullshit....MY FUCKING GOD!! I have never before realized what egomaniac creatures women are......I am so disappointed....
As a man who started off not having a filter on my emotion. I would be able to attract women, and be able to charm them with an 'I'm an emotional guy' line; however, once they found out that I wasn't actually just saying that, things ended pretty quickly.
Since then, I've just put a lid on my emotions and kind of let it creep out here and there to keep interest and intrigue afloat. I've been with my gf for close to a year now, and even now I still can't show her my final form lmao
OK I'm not as hateful towards women as many of you guys, but this is actually bs
Okay, he said "overly emotional" suggesting that there is something wrong but the fact they prefer a man who doesn't share his emotions while saying men are just as emotional.
What the fuck. The 4 women who said they should repress their emotion should actually get their rights taken away. Get them some emotionless man to marry that has full power over her and is stoic most of the time but bursts out at some point and beats her up.
You like that? Nah. So grow the fuck up.
I liked how in the past some of your interviews surprised me with how the ladies responded. This one was fairly predictable. Think they were being most honest at the end when they said upfront they want a man who is tough, guarded and stoic. Then only after getting to know them being emotionally vulnerable. Even then not to much just enough to feel like they are important to the guy. That is what I took from this.
A girlfriend wanted to know my deeper emotions and thoughts.
After a lot of nagging over time i opened up (for a big part) to her.
After a while she said that she was happy that she really got to know me so much better and now she could use my emotions and deeper thoughts like a weapon at any time against me so i better watched out.
Never again !
Keep 'em guessing.
Stand tall, firm, mysterious, while friendly, for they are looking for "that half-god daddy" when they were his little princess and want that feeling back.
Be in charge (but don't push them too much neither) or they won't respect you.
2:44 what a cuck! men are NOT more emotional than women thats batshit insane. we're more romantic in the pure sense of the word, but not more emotional. women feel emotions with such power, theyll fuck off all facts. men (outside the beta cuck white knights of course) dont. case closed sir. this channel is boss by the way. congrats. very jelly of your location, balls to go around doing this.
women don't understand having the ability to hide your emotions inherently means that men are less emotional. Emotions are things that are specifically differentiated between logic because logic can be easily controlled where as emotion is by definition, not.
Ergo, men who practice controlling their emotions are always going to be less emotional. Women think hiding your emotions is no big deal and that you're just as emotional as them only you're hiding it, but have any of them actually tried ever hiding their emotions? BIG FAT NO.
What if a men tell women something, and feel the need to explain further just so they get the whole view?
These women would rather fill in the blanks themselves than know facts, because according to them men lose their charisma if they go out of their way to communicate thoughts and feelings.
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