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Do Dating Apps Ruin Men's Self-Esteem?

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Dating apps have become the new norm to meet someone, but are they affecting how we feel about ourselves? What It's Like to Date a Video Game Character - http://bit.ly/2cqw0v3 Sign Up For The Seeker Newsletter Here - http://bit.ly/1UO1PxI Read More: Tinder: Swiping Self Esteem? http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2016/08/tinder-self-esteem.aspx "Whether they're swiping left or swiping right, male users of the popular dating app Tinder appear to have lower levels of self-esteem and all users appear to have more negative perception of body image than those who don't use the app, according to research presented at the annual convention of the American Psychological Association." Tinder Users Have Lower Self-Esteem: Study http://www.time.com/4439084/tinder-online-dating-self-esteem/ "In future studies, the researchers plan to look at how the reasons people use Tinder-whether they're there just to see who matches with them, to hook up or to find a partner-relates to their psychological wellbeing." How I won at Tinder http://www.metro.co.uk/2013/07/18/how-i-won-at-tinder-3888770/ "Tinder is a new game for people with smartphones and faces. Well, it's not technically a game; it's sort of a dating app, but it behaves like a game, asks you if you want to 'keep playing' and generally appears to have pitched itself somewhere between Angry Birds and Grindr." ____________________ DNews is dedicated to satisfying your curiosity and to bringing you mind-bending stories & perspectives you won't find anywhere else! New videos daily. Watch More DNews on Seeker http://www.seeker.com/show/dnews/ Subscribe now! http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=dnewschannel DNews on Twitter http://twitter.com/dnews Trace Dominguez on Twitter https://twitter.com/tracedominguez DNews on Facebook https://facebook.com/DiscoveryNews DNews on Google+ http://gplus.to/dnews Discovery News http://discoverynews.com Sign Up For The Seeker Newsletter Here: http://bit.ly/1UO1PxI Special Thanks to Julian Huguet for hosting DNews! Check Julian out on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jhug00
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DWSMMA (20 hours ago)
i dont use dating websites but dating websites is for women who just want compliments . i heard they don’t even be responding
Sean Douglas1 (9 days ago)
I'm done with women period. The online dating world completely made me lose all respect for them. I won't even talk to them at all anymore. I don't really need to anyway. I'm saving money for a sex doll and going mgtow. The great TFM is a life saver.
Oliver x (6 days ago)
Damn, what happened bro?
Shinique04 (14 days ago)
Wow... reading all of the shallow comments from the guys on this thread makes it apparent that it's not the app's fault. You're swiped left on for a reason. lol
Mr X (19 days ago)
tinder did give me self esteem issues not so much the lack of matchs but when i did match and i message them they do not reply then i find out many women use tinder for validation not for dating i deleted tinder and a few years later i look back and think maybe these women are really the ones with the self esteem issues seeking validation online just like many take selfies and put on social media fishing for likes
BDB (20 days ago)
Online dating is for lazy insecure people.
Banjo Miner (22 days ago)
Females on these site use apps to make their pics look good...I want a site where the ladies have to post a pic of their gut...I can deal with a 4 face.I cannot deal with a FUPA.
jbowen867 (25 days ago)
The 80/20 rule is really more like the 95/5 rule now.....the top 80 percent of women only consider the top 5 percent of men.... This leaves the top 5 percent of men running though most of the women. And the bottom 95 percent of guys with not even a opening hello
Toad Man (1 month ago)
I'm a good looking dude and getting no swipes. Women are so fucking picky even the fat and average ones
Mellotron Bong (1 month ago)
you are a boring goggly eyed twat.
Naksak % (1 month ago)
It is worst fucking app ever to exist. Idiots using it for having sex with one another every weekend like sun-human animal species and other idiots encouraging this behavior. No wonder humanity will take forever to make advancements in technology and unravel the mystery of the universe given that majority of us are stuck in a mindset which keeps getting narrower
Shaydes Of Blue (1 month ago)
Boi it does ruin it alot.
robo king (1 month ago)
Tinder is just for female validation really. Except if you're really attractive. Typical female bios are all about requirements (6'0"+, be white etc.). Even average girls think they're above average guys.
Diego Gonzalez (1 month ago)
They need research on this ? Lol. I almost know no men that are succesful on Tinder. Women get tons of matches, even if they are really ugly. Average guys have a hard time on Tinder. So it is obvious what Tinder will do. Tinder destroys an average guy's self esteem while it pushes up an ugly girl's self esteem.
Lil Jimmy (1 month ago)
Dating apps are artificial if you want to meet genuine people go out in the world don’t meet someone on an app I truly don’t think people think the same way they do online than in person it’s just different face to face but if you want love online go on a Christian site or match.com
PackerFan12 (2 months ago)
Simple answer, Yes!
[-_-;] (2 months ago)
The problem isn't Tinder. The problem is that women are fucking bitches...
Default User (2 months ago)
The same holds true for EVERY SINGLE DATING APP AND SITE
Mardas Man (2 months ago)
Women are just much more selective on Tinder, so they have the power to choose based on appearance while men swipe right most of the time. That results in most men getting nothing at all while women can choose the most attractive guys. Men, if you get no matches, that‘s not because you are ugly, it affects all men on a systemic level there
Glenn Quagmire (2 months ago)
Well, there's a war on MEN so i wouldn't be surprised if theyrendoing this shit to emasculate MEN.
the true (2 months ago)
Of course science had to be incorporated 🤣
Grendel’s arm (2 months ago)
Tinders great! Instead of going out to a bar, or park, I can get rejected by women in the comfort of my home!
Craig Renard (10 days ago)
XD savage comment but so true
BIGGUS DICKUS (2 months ago)
I'm single but i would never stoop so low than to join online dating. Anyway im a proper man, not a mouse. All the simps go on there and message every single woman on tbe site, they just sit there messaging all day like sad little twats. Its so clear you aint getting anywhere. The women on there are nothing but cunts & im not talking about there genitalia, they is cunts by nature. Decent women arent online... FACT
ThePoisoned Goth (3 months ago)
Don’t let any of these dating sites and apps ruin your self esteem
Ballislife99 (3 months ago)
For me not really. I get a lot of matches. I don't even think I'm that good looking so I don't know why I have success.
Tom Caine (3 months ago)
I wouldn't say they ruin self esteem, but they are hard work. Not least due to the fact that most girls just sit on their asses and expect men to send the first message. I have over 30 "likes" on OkCupid, yet only one girl has messaged me, and I do my fair share of initial messaging too. I don't mind sending the first message, but I just wish it were a little more balanced. Equality it seems is only good when it's convenient.
Rod Belding (3 months ago)
I can see how it could ruin one's self-esteem, but I didn't have any in the first place so I stayed the same after failing on dating apps.
5tonyvvvv (3 months ago)
Modern women=Worthless overpriced flaky self centered princess Cunts!
Undying Soul (3 months ago)
These sexist dating apps only benefit women, whereas they totally crush men psychologically. I'll probably delete every single one of these horrible apps, because there's literally no girl who ever gives me a like and even less message me back. At least, these apps show you more of the nature of women, but that also makes you dislike or hate them more as a man.
J Logan (4 months ago)
In short yes. It can really crush your self esteem when you go months without so much as a response to the dozens of emails you send a week. Then you have to try to be original and interesting in your message but not creepy and usually the girls profile is the same generic bullshit "im so laid back, i like to go out but prefer to be at home w netflix, blah blah" The girls on there are only really seeking validation amd attention amd they have the whole pool to choose from in real time with no interaction needed. They can just pick who they want without ever having to shoot the others down in real life. Good luck being an avwrage guy with that set up. Also if she says "no sex or hookups" generally shes down for it. Basically shes used to hooking up quickly at this point hence the disclaimer
Hello All (4 months ago)
Ya I wanted to kill myself honestly after i only got one swipe on Tinder. I felt extremely ugly, and to be honest I've never recovered. Now I genuinely believe i'm an ugly person, although objectively im quite normal looking. I feel like i have to live up to such a high standard to be with the type of girls i want. Tinder has severely damaged my self esteem, sadly.
Poppy Flower (4 months ago)
Dating apps sucks for everyone who are trying to be themselves on there and not trying to pretend to be something they are not just to get somebody to chat with them.
Samurai xxx (4 months ago)
Tinder is also a pay for matches service
you're right (4 months ago)
women don't get a negative body image because plain Jane's get 20 matches a day and a 50% match rate lol meanwhile above average looking guys get 1 match a week if they're lucky by some girl that he's actually better looking than and then she ghosts him. He has a 5% match rate
B Styless (5 months ago)
They will have to tweek dating apps or dating apps are 1 foot in the grave. What happened? Well it seems after 7 years of research women got bored of super easy access to sex and the Apps are no longer exciting, like an old toy. So women now are just forming cyber lines and waiting to meet the "Best Guys" only. That and women are tired of no call backs. I'm in Thailand and girls are so tired of 1 night stands many have decided to skip dinner and are now just charging money for the one night stand.
Jason Young (4 months ago)
I think online dating is going to do two things: 1. Force many people into social isolation 2. Force others to interact with people face to face more. Me honestly I prefer to go out and meet a woman. Online dating sucks and it's really superficial. Many of the same girls who would reject me online are so easy to pick up in real life
Kamaro3XVII (6 months ago)
Too many dudes ruin the game by been desperate af boosting bitches ego through the fucking roof. Guys, have some self dignity for god sakes.
Jason Young (4 months ago)
Yeah tbh I think most dudes who had some confidence lose it all once they download tinder. The problem is with filters bitches can be disguised to look like gods so even fat bitches somehow becomes 7 and 8s
FAGGOTWARE STUDIOS (6 months ago)
"objectification" stopped watching there
mellow riot (7 months ago)
I would say having to be wholly entertaining, super funny and witty during an entire conversation is the exhausting part! and even when you move on to talking on the phone with these girls.. all the ground you've covered goes out the window if, either you say one thing that doesn't vibe with them, or their real life intervenes.. it is way too much of an emotional investment for a guy.. unless you know, you're rich and photogenic. but you know.. girls have it so rough..
halla balla (8 months ago)
relaxedromance.com is the new thing.
Jody Strickland (8 months ago)
Its rough being an average Joe on dating apps..
Brandon Dana (9 months ago)
It 100% destroyed my confidence that's why I got rid of all dating sites and social media. I've had enough being rejected and ignored to accept that I really don't need a women. It's merely a blessing to me actually. Dating apps as we all know boost women's ego while destroying a man's confidence. I've learned to accept it because in all reality it's saving me a lot of time, money, and disappointment. So in all reality it's more of a win for me. My life, my rules, my goals, my money. I'm completely happy with that.
Josiah Blackstock (8 months ago)
Brandon Dana yeah I understand exactly how you feel. Me too
Shubert McWilbur (9 months ago)
I'm a 5 foot 9 midget! I need to find a dating site for gnomes.
Brigh Tside (9 months ago)
I thought matches are supposed to text back and forth...only 3/4 of my matches ever do...
G Coy (9 months ago)
Who gives a shit
wowerman (10 months ago)
Dating online is for women mainly seeking attention. They upload tens of selfie photos thinking that is best way to attract men. There is big group of single mothers, obessed women and those feminist looking for " REAL MEN".Most men with brain cells will ditch it if they have not succeded. Most women will keep waiting for " PERFECT MAN " fantasy.
Oscar Valdez (8 days ago)
wowerman What is a "REAL MAN" to a feminist? Since everything is toxic masculinity.
Helena Monique Clarke (10 months ago)
Frankly, most male egos Ive ever met were a bit fragile anyway. If an app that turn rejection cyber is messing with your self esteem, maybe youre a bit overly sensitive.
Ferien7 (8 days ago)
Helena Monique Clarke women's are even more fragile. They simply deal with rejection less.
Josiah Blackstock (8 months ago)
Helena Monique Clarke you would understand better if you were a man. But since you're a woman I don't expect you to completely understand 100 percent.
Mo Ali (10 months ago)
Tinder increases most girls' self-esteem while decrease most of guys'. Waste of time for any guy who is average looking or below. Enjoy your real life outside the boundry of your PC or Mobile and show them the best of you in and out :)
Rusty Nail (10 months ago)
If a guy wants to boost his self-esteem the best thing he can do is stay away from American women. Literally a female psychiatrist told me that today's women are extremely cruel to men especially the " good guys" and it drives their self esteem way down and in a some cases causes them to commit suicide.
40stryder03 (1 month ago)
Damn
Red Devil (10 months ago)
They say dating apps are shallow, but it's human beings in general that are shallow. That is the bitter truth
Richard Alpert (11 months ago)
As a semi attractive and semi smart male i think dating sites / apps are a waste of time.If you look for sex / hook-ups (hoes) they might be ok. But, dating apps/sites fucks up both women and male:1. Women get way more validation than is natural. Some 20 year old girl with good looks have probably got more validation than Marilyn Monroe back in the 60s. Completely unnatural. These women become dumb, because they dont have to do anything or have any qualities. They can play guys all the way they want because there are 100 guys in line.2. I dont think women with a good looks and low self esteem benefits in any way by getting approval online. She is ok to not work on her character as long as validation is offered.3. For males, there is a quite a lot competition. I dont know the ratio but i would think registered women vs man can be something like 1:4. In real life there is not so much competition for single girls, because so few guys approach. 4. You make conclusions based on a picture not knowing the human at all. It´s an easy way to be a sexist5. People online are more rude than in real lifeI myself am on a semen retention right know. One of the best things i ever done. I dont lust women anymore and i dont think about sex that much. Imagine how much better youre relationships can be with women if you come from this place..
Josiah Blackstock (8 months ago)
Richard Alpert true
Ahmed Syed (1 year ago)
Reading the comment section is like haha, man men are finally just over women.
McFraneth Fradet (1 year ago)
Capitalism is toxic. People become objects. Check out sociologist Theodor Adorno, and reclaim your dignity.
AI 8 (27 days ago)
Materialism is toxic, capitalism is good. Capitalism is still the best system that we know of so far.
Jonathan Pappas (1 month ago)
moron
McFraneth Fradet (1 year ago)
Why do you think that? It would be interesting to hear your arguments in defence of your assertion.
Forsaken Times (1 year ago)
McFraneth Marxism is degenerate
Michael C. (1 year ago)
Speak to Me does not employ swiping, texting, or emojis. If someone is interested in someone, he/she records a "Voicenote" and sends it to them. He/she cannot send another Voicenote to that person until he/she replies with a Voicenote of their own. This reciprocation feature protects users from further unwanted voicenotes. Speak to Me is available on the App Store for free and will be coming to Android shortly. Though the app needs improvement, we think that it can shake up the online dating market which is saturated with endless, dismissive swiping and emotionless text-based communication. If anyone has any questions just send me a message! Best, Michael, co-founder of Speak to Me
Danny L. (1 year ago)
wow! The Power of influence! Stay Strong people! ...smh
Creepy Jigglypuff (1 year ago)
This whole video and "study" smells of gyncentrism
For me, its only motivation to eat healthy and hit the gym to get abs. I swipe for 8,9, and 10s so I gotta be a 10 to get them lol. In the long run it will lead me to a happier lifestyle. Where things tear people down, I use to build myself up.
IOFIsickness (13 days ago)
Having a good body wont make you a 10... Girls usually prefer a pretty face than a pretty body, i hit the gym for some years, but i cant change my face, even tho i get on dates rarely, i get nothing compared to 90% of my friends, thats the true and ugly guys like me have to deal with it.
Jason Young (1 year ago)
I go to the gym but I'm a pre med major in college and I don't have the time to sit down and take pics at perfect angles. With the stress in my life I have a good body around 16% body fat but there are no abs.
Selector Jah (1 year ago)
I see social media and online dating as an ego boots for women and a reality check for men. Women will never get their self esteem affected by social media or online dating but men will get affected by it because women have no qualms about ignoring and insulting men they find unattractive.
Waldo Armijo (1 year ago)
Nope
Fart Crapper (1 year ago)
G I N G E R A L P H A M A L E
Grace Lewis (1 year ago)
omg I just finally got the name tinder too... lol. I've wondered that for so long! 😅
Vagdedes (1 year ago)
Is it just me or most american people have the same voice generated by their accent?
Alan Lacard (1 year ago)
Why does he have Derp eyes?
Barnaby ap Robert (1 year ago)
He's from Derpia.
John Meda (1 year ago)
Personally, my luck didn't improve until I got rid of Instagram, Snapchat, and all the other profile based social media almost a year ago in January of 2016 (next month makes a year). I stopped that, went practically into monk mode and just really started questioning everything, learning about psychology and self-improvement. Really worked on my self-esteem and social skills. Not just that but also the NoFap got my mind away from being wired to think non-stop about sex and I eventually got more caught up in my own goals and stopped putting women on pedestals and really started to feel better about my own worth and see them as my equals and be a bit more judging in whether I want such a girl or not as opposed to being all desperate like I was a year ago. My conversational skills improved a lot and I rarely ever use my phone anymore unless it's as a tool. I really kind of judge people by it now and pay close attention to all their mannerisms and dependence on their phones. It's like the adults comfort object (the object you'd give to a child to make them feel comfortable, like a teddy bear or blanket). Basically, improve yourself, your value, and know it and own it. Have your own goals in life and don't seek your happiness in others and get rid of the delusions Hollywood has given you.
Bobby Smith (5 months ago)
Annnnnd you're still single. I never hear of no fap guys actually getting girls btw
Deano (9 months ago)
we need more women as well with these such "worldly outlooks".. maybe just maybe tings might start to turn around then in time.
Yes! These damn dating apps and females PERIOD ruin men, great men. Something is SEVERELY WRONG with females these days and it's just not going to change because they won't change. I'm so very alone. I've tried everything there is and nothing works. Females just want dumb ass choices. Smmfh it's like its genetic smfh white or asian or the other race females that are attractive are shallow as hell, ignorant, dumb, assholes, racist, stuck up, jerks, and bitches ..period. :"""( They don’t get it.. and never will because they want stupid. They destroy truly rare great REAL men from existing and the complain there are no real great men. And other race females ARE racist shallow..
Same here. But then people think it’s funny. And females absolutely do nothing but ignore and call you “crazy”.. when its FEMALES that are the reason. I’m wanting suicide more and more.. and people ignore, females ignore, send bullshit Suicide hotline.. instead of females just doing what I ask or try, even in person! And I looked and was a former model, had the body of a superhero, females LITERALLY MADE ME NOT EXIST anymore and I don’t now. Females really just don’t care that they are assholes and bitches especially white or Asian or other race slim attractive beautiful females. Females like pissing real men off and killing real men. And I have literally NO ONE. Haven’t had sex in almost 3 years. Never in my lifetime had sex I actually truly wanted. Because white girls or asian or attractive slim beautiful females are ASSHOLES AND RACIST AND BITCHES AND STUCK UP.
Undying Soul (3 months ago)
Invisible, SO ALONE , Hated, Never Even Noticed I totally feel you. I've also tried everything. A study has revealed that these bitches rated over 80℅ of men on okcupid as below-average looking. Their ratings of men in other apps were similarly disgusting. So I as a decent looking guy, among most other men, can completely give up trying to find a partner through these apps. But I seemingly have to give up women in general. I'm also already, but in fact ONLY 26 years old, and I already have to accept the truth that I will never get anywhere near a woman intimately. I hope I'll die soon.
Im so sick of you wack job people in this world.. females just don’t like the truth, nor do females care or are they CAPABLE of humility or change. Attractive slim petite white or asian or other race females (that aren’t ghetto, or with kids) are all assholes.. period. They ignore men that they ruin
Whatever. 34 years of "waiting".. god has nothing to do with it. Its females and how they just are... assholes and mean and stuck up and shallow and racist
00great226 (1 year ago)
girls care more about their appearence than boys but with tinder it's both genders
sirderpsalot (1 year ago)
Tinder just confirmed my suspicions that I am ugly and don't deserve love from anyone. Oh well, life sucks, nothing new.
Joe H. (1 year ago)
that's because we live in this absurd culture where women are taught to love their bodies even if they are completely unhealthy yet men are kicked to the curb
Taka Masuda (9 months ago)
Barnaby ap Robert hahahaha. Seriously. When your entire body is one outward curve you are not “curvy”
Barnaby ap Robert (1 year ago)
It's true. Fat women now call themselves "curvy" even though they are only convex.
Mike Mac (1 year ago)
Everybody and their mothers know women are more picky than men by far. No amount of political correct comments can dispute that. But this comment is for women. Even an average looking woman can get plenty of men. But how good looking you REALLY are, is how many men what to marry you, or have long term relationships. At my job, I see sooo many women walking around everyday, ugly as hell, with their nose in the air, like there hot. But the only thing they really have is money. But it's men's fault, not women's, for being so cheap and easy. Guys, we have got to stop giving ourselves away for free. No one appreciates free crap. You act cheap, you'll get treated cheap.
Bellöck_Grithlus (1 year ago)
i got banned from tinder for uploading a dick pic. cause i was being ignored. and yea i was drunk
Stephen Sims (1 year ago)
A study targeted at women that just grazes the affect on men. What a monumentally unexpected surprise.
Dana Nicole (1 year ago)
Julian - you are the best!!!!!!
Unknown Gamer (1 year ago)
Hah I dont use that crap
loving light (1 year ago)
why do some men hate women, and vice versa.
Marco K (8 days ago)
because some women can be very shallow, narcissitic, non caring, attention seeking etc. I am sure you can figure out why i say this. But that is mainly why........these types of women tend to hurt men a lot more by their actions and aura they radiate........they take and leave the man in disappointment and despair. Much like a guy version of a player is how some women are
Amer Darwich (1 month ago)
Because women follow money
Barnaby ap Robert (1 year ago)
Expectations.
ragnarox16 (1 year ago)
And why didn't he keep his shirt off......
Brandi Empress (1 year ago)
Nobody should base their self-esteem on how other value themselves. That's just asking for hurt. Self-esteem and confidence comes from with in. Don't let others control how you think about yourself.
Ferien7 (8 days ago)
Brandi Empress that is nonsense, confidence comes from others' validation
Exactly.. shes a female.. arrogant
You females are assholes
Barnaby ap Robert (1 year ago)
Until you go too far and describe yourself as an "Empress".
NichoTBE (1 year ago)
So whats the current popular dating apps that work these days (i.e not full of hundreds of fake female accounts etc.)? I dated a few women from "Bolt" back in the early 2000's which was kind of like an early myspace - yeah im getting old now :(
Di5TuRBeD (1 year ago)
This guy sounds a lot like Edward Snowden
jon powell (1 year ago)
KILL ME! PLEASE IN THE NAME OF ALL THAT IS MERCIFUL, KILL ME! that's what my self esteem has to say about dating. because dying alone has become my inevitable fate and I'm tired of the pain it's causing so please...KILL ME!
Reece Crump (1 year ago)
as a chick with a dick, i can confirm online dating is worse as a guy... i lived both worlds. but perhaps given my nature, im not the best example of the typical man or woman. all i know is when i stopped pretending to be a boy and made a new female profile i suddenly got the of attention from the kind of people i was looking for (and a lot of people i would rather not have lol).
Thomas Larsen (1 year ago)
Self-steem, what is this magic?
Barnaby ap Robert (1 year ago)
Once my credit score hit 820 I started sharing the news. Never looked back.
G Kelly (1 year ago)
"We found that being actively involved with Tinder, regardless of the user's gender, was associated with body dissatisfaction, body shame, body monitoring, internalization of societal expectations of beauty, comparing oneself physically to others, and reliance on media for information on appearance and attractiveness," co-author Jessica Strübel, Ph.D. said in a press release.
PhatAsPhoebe (1 year ago)
I think men are more prone to take risks and make contact with women on dating apps, which could explain a higher rate of rejection and thusly lowered self esteem.
Jennifer Esein (1 year ago)
Well, the main question to ask first is to inquire why esteem of oneself is important at all? Why have self-esteem?
Jay S (1 year ago)
Men...let me ask you this question. Would you rather have a woman bitching at you forever about stupid shit or would you rather enjoy life? Divorce your wife, dump your girlfriend, do your own thing.
Jay S (1 year ago)
MGTOW!!!!!
Daniel Ocampo (1 year ago)
It's weird cuz in real life, a lot of hot girls like me, but on tinder, I only got matches with fat and ugly girls. That's fucking strange
Sir Highness (9 months ago)
Daniel Ocampo Same it's kinda weird how that works
zholden88 (1 year ago)
I was dating a girl and I compared our tinders. Every guy she swiped right on yielded a match. Most girls I swiped right on yielded nothing. Im a doctor and I'd say Im as good looking or better looking than her. A woman's self confidence is only boosted by dating apps while men shrink in stature. Thats why I gave them up.
Josiah Blackstock (8 months ago)
zholden88 exactly
Accent Tué (1 year ago)
*_No, they open your eyes_*
Grarder (1 year ago)
I'm going to go with yes, Tinder gives self esteem issues. If you're not Chris Helmsworth you're not getting a swipe from anyone. Trust me, anyone, I'm not that picky. I find in the actually pretty short time I've been using it my body consciousness has gone way up and my confidence has fallen dramatically. The only thing I'm confident of now is I'm going to die alone. Thanks Tinder!
Stephen Noad (13 days ago)
Grarder delete tinder.
salg (1 year ago)
Fuck that bullshit. Being alone is forever good.
ROB P (1 year ago)
Wax those pits bro
varun choudhary (1 year ago)
so now u gotta pay money to find love, that sucks
Ian M (1 day ago)
Only God can love you unconditionally without cost
STANK BREATH (10 days ago)
Realistically you've always had to pay to find love.
Exactly.. because of females
Chris (1 year ago)
I don't need a dating app to know how shitty I look. I get enough rejection by women in the real wold as it is.
eualadindeal (1 year ago)
you should see what id does to women's... is fucking hilarious to watch them compete... and sad they act like savages... is incredible
Jesse Wilson (1 year ago)
Tinder is clearly responsible for lowering some men's self-esteem; especially once they talk to an attractive male friend Tinder user or put up a picture of a male model and watch the likes come in like an avalanche. Only the top 10-5% of attractive male photos get lots of right swipes. The difference between a male picture that is in the 80th percentile (more attractive than 80% of photos) is only marginally better than the male picture that is only in the 20th percentile. Both are basically the same compared to the 95th percentile male photo. 80th percentile male picture has a hard time getting any likes from 70th-ish percentile female pictures and above. Generally men find 70th percentile female photos and above to be attractive enough for them, but generally women only find 90th percentile male photos and above to be attractive enough. The lesson here for men trying to meet lots of attractive (70th percentile female pictures and above) women is try to make yourself look like a male model or don't use tinder. Other options are approaching random women or having a big social influence. The only EASY way to get the attention of lots of women is to look like a model. Make sure you're fit, muscular, toned, ripped in the abs, well dressed, confident, have nice hair and have a bit of scruffy facial hair if you can. You can rate your photo's attractiveness at photofeeler.com. This information is a combination of actual data, personal studies, and reasoning.
Ylkan Algalan (1 year ago)
I am black and I never got a match on Tinder
Nathan Montgomery (1 year ago)
Tinder: Somehow there's always that sneaky fat chick that gets through and appears in your likes.. & yur lik.. dufq???
KAC3 (1 year ago)
I'll say goodbye to love. No one e we cared if I should live or die, time again the chance for love has passed me by and all I know of love is how to love without it. I just can't seem to find it:(
Dr. Von (2 months ago)
KAC3 start running and lifting, chase your passions, learn to love yourself. I was married to a beautiful women but ultimately she didn’t care about my needs. You will never be loved by a women the way you want to be. They are biologically incapable.
Jaybul Coal (1 year ago)
so many times have I read profiles that say if you pm me make sure to mention something on my profile so I know you read it. or all guys want is one thing blah blah blah blah. I've tried being that nice guy they say they want on their profile but in the end I get no response. maybe it's because my looks or the fact that I need to pay money to be hot listed so people fine me. I've also tried playing the ass hole loser that women say they don't want on their profile and the outcome is mostly the same. if you ask me I think these dating sites are rigged to a woman's favor. no I don't want to pay 5 dollars a month to pm someone. no I don't want your website bots to pm me telling me to pay for someone's Webcam time. or pay to read my texts.
Anubis_X64 (11 months ago)
Tell them in a message you think they are a 7/10 in looks and maybe a 6/10 based on personality. Trust me they will write back and either ask why or start to bitch about how much of a "troll" you are.
Vanilla Essence (1 year ago)
women just need to be replaced. we need companion bots. if we had a replacement for women I wouldn't be killing myself in the next few days
APodbayDoor (7 months ago)
Vanilla Essence You there?
Vanilla Essence (1 year ago)
just like a lot of other guys wouldn't
Fix emGold (1 year ago)
Fuck men's self-esteem. Most narcissistic self-entitled creatures to ever walk the earth lol.
Fix emGold (1 year ago)
+Sebastian Mahzouni Kanfjäll  Who the fuck are you? I don't take back my statement, why the fuck do men think they should get laid? It's not like fat chicks are out here in the comment section complaining why studs aren't boning them lol.
Sebastian Mahzouni (1 year ago)
You must never get laid

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